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hmf, polyamorists, or people who like casual sex, are not just "easy". it's more of a, if I see someone I like, where's the virtue in being difficult?
...anyway, just because you don't have to be *in love*, doesn't mean you don't have feelings for whoever you sleep with... doesn't mean you'll just sleep with whoever's handy just because they're a warm body... that's not it either.
I think people have this idea that it's either, "love and only love," or "sex with anything that breathes." I get the distinct impression that is not how it works...
i love you, dear. :)